self love – Dr. Elizabeth Cox, ND, LAc https://drsaritaelizabeth.com Tue, 23 Sep 2025 01:40:31 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/favicon-36x36.png self love – Dr. Elizabeth Cox, ND, LAc https://drsaritaelizabeth.com 32 32 Earth: Be spontaneous https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/earth-be-spontaneous/ Mon, 22 Sep 2025 19:15:36 +0000 https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/?p=4980 Continue reading →]]> What comes to mind for you when you hear the word spontaneous?

Fun, going with the flow, adventure, excitement, allowing a natural unfolding?

No way, Nope, No. Not for me. I just can’t. That’s crazy. 


From the latin roots: sua – from + sponte – of (one’s) own accord


Recall the last time you had a good belly laugh? True laughter arises spontaneously. 

When was the last time you were spontaneous? A last minute yes to extra concert tickets? a trip to the beach without previous planning? dancing in the kitchen to a favorite song? a walk to clear your head after hours on the computer? chasing a rainbow or sunset? a random act of kindness?

Do you have a great story about a decision you make spontaneously?

Why be spontaneous?

It can contribute to our happiness, expose us to new things and engender adaptability. Life events can turn out better than we could ever imagine (or plan) when we allow natural unfolding verses forcing desired outcomes.


5 ways to encourage spontaneity:

Be present

Be open to new things

Be flexible

Trust your intuition

Connect with your feelings & emotions


 

Spontaneity v Impulsivity

In short, spontaneity considers the consequences of the decision.  Impulsivity does not.

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Water ~ Listen and wait https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/water-listen-and-wait/ Tue, 14 Mar 2023 14:30:41 +0000 https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/?p=4507 Listen and wait.

 

Winter is the most yin time of the year – the most receptive season.

Practice reserve.

Spring has not yet come.

We are still dreaming our dreams.

Practice listening to the stillness.

Practice waiting in the void.

 

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Water ~ Expand your circle of love https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/water-expand-your-circle-of-love/ Tue, 14 Mar 2023 14:29:53 +0000 https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/?p=4515 Continue reading →]]> Expand your circle of love.

When we honor the stillness of winter, love settles.

Winter is the quiescent season.

 

The season to remember, accept, forgive and heal generational to generation.

This is all work to be done in the deep and quiet essence of spirit.

First we find self love.

Then we find love for the other, the beloved.

Next we expand our heart to those with which we have difficulties.

Finally we can honestly expand our circle of love to the greater community.

This is metta. This is the practice of loving kindness.

 

It will rock your world.

 

 

 

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Water ~ Develop true humility https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/water-develop-true-humility/ Tue, 14 Mar 2023 14:29:24 +0000 https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/?p=4521 Continue reading →]]> Develop true humility.

How can we develop healthy humility?
Passionate curiosity is a start.

In the asking, we engage the other and the ego is checked.

Service is a good middle.

How does it feel when we volunteer our best hours of the week, donate our most valuable items or fund a heart felt cause?

In the end, seek original origins.

Humilis is the Latin root meaning low.

 

By our own choice, consequence, or chance, true humility is often the outcome of experiencing great depth, deep troubles or profound sorrows.

Water, the element of winter, teaches us how to serve all, go underground and spring up when necessary, go deep and take many forms.

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Water ~ You are a visionary https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/water-you-are-a-visionary/ Tue, 14 Mar 2023 14:28:53 +0000 https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/?p=4513 Continue reading →]]> You are a visionary.

The water element paired organs that peak in winter are the Bladder and Kidney (plus adrenals).

The bladder meridian travels from the inner canthus of the eye across the head down the back side of the entire body exiting out the little toe. It traverses all of us.

Many of the point names indicate their function: bright eyes, supporting yang, supporting middle, celestial pillar, soul door, spirit hall, spiritual celestial connection, soul gate.

Acupuncture treats all levels of the human – mind, body, spirit.

Treating the bladder points can not only treat our organs like the bladder or the eyes, but it can also treat our spiritual sickness. It can help us see through the eyes of spirit. The dark clouds of our emotions and thinking can be cleared to see the bright blue skies of divine perfection.

Winter is Dreamtime.

Make the connection to your internal visionary this winter.

Dream it.

Envision it.

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Fire – Love Heals. Period. https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/fire-love-heals-period/ Mon, 19 Sep 2022 21:16:57 +0000 https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/?p=3985 Love Heals. Period. A shout-out to those beloveds that offer and receive unconditional love. I’m blessed with so much love. It’s a mighty power. Relationships are the theme for the fire season of summer. Did you know you become like the 5 people you spend the most time with?
Let that sink in. Yes, you become like them. Choose wisely.
I choose heart. I choose integrity.
I choose passion, honesty, kindness, presence. What do you choose? With love and all the while, I am super picky about my close-ins and with whom I spend my precious time. #elementwisdomcards #fire #naturopathicdoctor #tcm #fiveelements #love #relationshipcoaching #friends #coworkers

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Fire – Burn Bright Beautiful One https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/fire-burn-bright-beautiful-one/ Mon, 19 Sep 2022 20:56:37 +0000 https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/?p=3973 Continue reading →]]> Boundaries with Dignity = Self Love 💗 People treat you the way you allow them to treat you. The pericardium, heart protector, may be injured with boundary violations like rape or incest or with trauma like divorce or heartbreak. If you struggle with setting or holding healthy boundaries or it appears that your boundaries are frequently being challenged, look inward AND outward. It is a self love practice. If you are still confused ask yourself: how does it feel if my daughter was being treated in this manner/allowing this situation? How does it feel if my best friend was? Then ask again for yourself. Do it goddess! Set boundaries with dignity. Use fire when necessary 🔥 If the fire doesn’t work, book a session, and I’ll light one for you. Burn Bright Beautiful One #selflove #pericardium #5element #acupuncture #fire #elementwisdomcards #relationshipcoaching

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Fire – Apply self love generously https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/fire-self-love/ Mon, 19 Sep 2022 20:50:39 +0000 https://drsaritaelizabeth.com/?p=3969 The heart ♥ and it’s heart protector🧡 have energy peaks during the summer. If you are struggling with self love, breaking out of toxic patterns or conflicts with your family or beloveds, connect for the support you need. Book an acupuncture session. Purchase a fire/summer Element Wisdom Card deck. Love yourself. Care for yourself. Empower yourself. 💫  #love #heartblock #selflove #acupuncture #naturopathicdoctor #wayshower

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