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The hug
Next time you go in for or are receiving a hug, take note.  Do you lean in left shoulder to left shoulder, right shoulder to right shoulder or reach for the waist with a side hug? Are you comfortable with a hug? Were you raised with hugs? How long is your natural hug? Do you want to practice hugging?
 
Word Origin
Etymologically, “hug” is thought to come from the Old Norse word hugga, which translates to “to comfort or console”.
 
A lesson from one of my clinical mentors in my Chinese Medicine program has never been forgotten and still settles in my mind and body upon each greeting or departing with the gesture of affenction more than 20 years later. Hugging heart to heart is an everyday Qi Gong practice.
 
How to Give a Heart-to-Heart Hug
 
A true heart-to-heart hug requires conscious physical alignment to connect your energetic centers.
 
Follow these steps:
  1. Approach Left-to-Left: Step forward and slightly shift your body to the right so your left shoulder aligns with the other person’s left shoulder.
  2. Heart Contact: Wrap your arms around them, allowing the left side of your chest (where your heart resides) to press directly against theirs.
  3. Breathe and Hold: Hold the embrace for at least 20 seconds. Take 2–3 full relaxing breaths.

The Scientific Why?

  • Releases Oxytocin: Holding the hug for 20 seconds triggers the release of oxytocin (the “bonding hormone”), which lowering heart rates and reducing cortisol stress levels.
  • Calms the Nervous System: The deep pressure stimulation co-regulates your nervous systems, shifting both bodies from “fight-or-flight” into a restorative “rest-and-heal” parasympathetic state.
  • Enhances Emotional Security: Direct chest contact stimulates the vagus nerve, instantly lowering blood pressure and increasing feelings of safety and social trust.

 
Igniting the Inner Smile: Qi Gong & the Fire Element
 
True connection begins with an open heart. Summer is governed by the Fire element, a powerful force that directly rules the heart, small intestine, and our emotional capacity for joy. When our Fire element is balanced, we naturally radiate warmth, enthusiasm, and compassion—the exact ingredients needed for a deep, meaningful embrace.
 
However, when life gets overwhelming, the Fire element can burn too hot, leading to anxiety, insomnia, or emotional burnout. Conversely, if the fire dims, we might feel isolated or disconnected. Qi Gong offers a gentle, moving meditation to clear this excess heat and rekindle our inner warmth.
 
Stoking the Warmth of Connection
In Qi Gong practice, the heart is considered the home of our spirit, or Shen. To harmonize the Fire element, we use fluid movements paired with the “Heart Sound” (Haw). This specific healing sound acts like a cooling breeze, releasing pent-up pressure from the chest.
 
Qi Gong Practices for kindred fire
 
Step-by-Step Instructions:
 
Clearing the Heart (Disperse stagnation, process grief, reduce blame & hatred)
 

The Setup: Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart, knees soft, palms together in a prayer position at the center of your chest.

  1. The Inhale: Breathe in deeply through your nose, feeling your chest expand.
  2. The Exhale: Push your hands straight forward away from your body, palms facing out. Simultaneously, exhale through your mouth while whispering the healing sound “Hawww” to release tension.
  3. Repetitions: Repeat for 6 to 9 breaths.
 
By pushing your hands forward on the exhale and drawing them back to your chest on the inhale, you regulate the heart’s rhythm. You are actively clearing away old hurts and pulling in pure, unconditional love. This practice shifts your internal state from stress to safety, making your physical hugs an authentic extension of your inner peace.
 
Opening the Heart (Invite positive energy and possibility)
 

The Setup: Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart, knees soft, and arms relaxed at your sides. 

  1. The Inhale: Bring your hands up to chest height, palms facing each other, then extend your arms straight out in front of you. Gently expand your arms out wide to the sides, opening your chest completely.
  2. The Exhale: Softly bring your hands back toward the centerline of your chest, palms facing your body, crossing your arms, wrapping yourself in an embrace.
  3. Repetitions: Repeat for 6 to 9 breaths.
Balancing your Fire element allows you to show up fully for yourself and those you care about. By cultivating a peaceful heart, your presence becomes a safe harbor for yourself and for others.
 
 
 
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FIRE RITUALS

 

Ancient cultures have recognized the power of FIRE with prayer and reverence. Fire has the power to destroy our homes and the life giving, usefulness to cook our food. It is a force of destruction, creation, and purification. In Sanskrit, Fire, or Agni , is one of the five basic elements of creation and is the dominant element of the Ayruveda Pitta dosha. Pitta dosha is composed of a mind and body that are made up of the two elements, fire and water. An out of balance, or out of control fire element, leads to mental and emotional issues such as anger, aggression, and rage. In balance, Agni or FIRE presents as enthusiasm and joy.

Fire is a controversial force in the world and humans. A team of researchers analyzed the history and possible future of our ever-changing relationship with fire in an article published in the Journal of Biogeography. The article is entitled, “The Human Dimension of Fire Regimes on Earth.”

Wherever humans have gone in the world, they have carried fire with them and humans evolved to eat cooked food. I found this article about the history of humans and fire interesting and thought provoking. Essentially, cooking with heat outsourced some of the body’s work of digestion so that more energy is obtained from food and less energy is used in processing food. Cooking breaks down collagen and the connective tissue in meat and releases starch and fat of plants. Cooking freed up time, which allowed the prioritization of the development and the evolution of our intellect.

When early humans discovered how to build fires, life became much easier as they huddled around fire for warmth, light, and protection. They used it to cook, which afforded them more calories than eating raw foods that were hard to chew and digest. They could socialize into the night, which possibly gave rise to storytelling and other cultural traditions.

In the Choctaw language the month of September translates to Haponi Hashi – Cooking Month.  Cooking outside on an open fire is a present and historical tribal tradition.  Haponi Hashi traditionally marks the final summer harvest of the three sisters ~ corn, beans and squash.  Here family and community gather to prepare food stores (traditionally hanging to dry) for the cold season where cooking and eating together ensues.  It typically also marks the time of the year in which the weather has cooled such that cooking outside over an open fire becomes practical and enjoyable again!

Fire Loves Rituals

Fire can enhance our spiritual rituals and support us by purifying and setting intentions in our own lives. For generations, fire rituals are based on ancient ceremonies passed down over the ages. Today, it still has meaning and plays a positive role in our lives to enrich our relationships with our families, ourselves, and the divine in whatever form we hold as believers and practitioners. Examples of fire rituals across several cultures include:

The Hindu fire ceremony, Yajna, translates to “sacrifice, devotion, worship, and offering”. Yajna is any ritual performed in front of a sacred fire, often supplemented by songs or mantras. This ancient Hindu practice helps to heal trauma and connect its practitioners to the spiritual realm.

In ancient India, the vibrations that are produced during a traditional Vedic fire ceremony are thought to represent the most powerful presence of the Divine on Earth. The upward motion of fire is said to be similar to the divine kundalini energy. In the Vedic scriptures, Agni, or Fire, is the messenger between the people and their gods. Vedic Fire Ceremonies are performed for all types of occasions: to let go of patterns and obstacles in our lives, to express gratitude, for healing, purification of the environment and ourselves, or to pray for success with a particular venture. Fire rituals can connect us with the Divine and allow us to express gratitude for this life and all our gifts.

Kontaiji Temple Goma Houyou

Japanese Buddhism practices Goma as a fire ritual performed outside under the sky. Some types of ritual fire offerings include: A Peaceful Ritual Fire Offering is performed to clear away the results of unhealthy actions or to clear away obstacles. Peaceful and Increasing Ritual Fire Offerings are practiced for both one’s own and other’s benefit. A Subduing Ritual Fire Offering may be performed to distinguish harmful forces. 

Smoke rising from burning sage

In Native American traditions, a smoke offering in prayer is at the core of many traditional ceremonies. A pipe ceremony combines the powerful elements of fire to symbolize the balance of life. The pipe ceremony is a sacred ritual for connecting the physical and spiritual worlds. The stem of the pipe represents the masculine, the bowl represents the feminine, the tobacco is an earth offering, and the breath drawn in smoking is the air. Fire unifies the ceremony with a purifying force as it is drawn over the tobacco/herbs through the bowl and stem, creating smoke that rises and delivers prayers to the spirit world.

Create Your Own Fire Ceremony

There are many simple ways you can take inspiration from these ancient practices and bring the power of the fire element into your life. You can make physical or emotional offerings for the fire to consume. Write down the things things you are grateful for, the things you want to let go of, and the things you want to set intention for. Light a candle or build a fire, contemplate these things, and hold these thoughts in your heart and your mind. Let the flicker of the flame mesmerize you and you may even make an offering of sage or cedar to the fire. Be creative and make it personal and understand that there have been many generations of ancestors who spent sacred time around fire. Reflect on the fire in a sacred way and create your own ceremony. Let the fire enchant and mesmerize you, purify you, and empower you.

Blooming Lotus

The Lotus Flower or Lotus Plant is a freshwater aquatic plant. Most Lotus Plants are native to the warm climates of Southern Asia and Australia. A Lotus Flower’s roots bury deep in the mud of a still body of water such as a lake, pond, or backyard water garden. A long stem or stalk grows from the roots that remains in the muddy water. The plant’s leaves and bud grow from atop the long stalk. The leaves usually stay under the surface of the water with only the flower bud seen above the water’s surface. As the bud opens, its petals are exposed as they open one by one. Once the petals are all opened, the flower is in full bloom, which corresponds to the fire element- the life cycle of full expression. The Lotus Flower rests until the sun begins to set at which point the Lotus Flower begins to close its petals until it is completely in a “bud” formation and the Lotus Flower sinks back down into the muddy water. Each day, the Lotus Flower repeats this action of rising, basking, and sinking. It is this nature of the plant that inspires so many religions and cultures with meaning. Buddhists believe the Lotus Flower is representative of rebirth.

Here at Alberta Orchard Wellness, we were recently gifted a lotus garden which serves as our new bee watering station! We are excitedly awaiting the lotus bloom, which will look like this one.

The plant has become the symbol of multiple life lessons and ideals such as fertility, honesty, grace, prosperity, knowledge, and serenity. The lotus flower (Nelumbo nucifera) is associated with purity and beauty in the Buddhism and Hinduism.

Just like the Lotus, we too have the ability to rise

from the darkness and radiate into the world.”     

-Unknown-

As gratitude is enhanced by a fire ceremony, the Flowering Lotus yoga pose is an excellent posture for meditation because it calms the mind and creates a sense of peace. The flowering lotus pose is an intermediate seated, hip-opener, and balancing posture that prepares the body for deeper stretching poses. From the butterfly pose with the heels touching, the arms reach over the thighs and under the calves. The yogi then rocks back until balanced on the sit bones, and the hands take gyan mudra (thumb and forefinger touching). A variation of the foundational lotus pose, flowering lotus pose is also called blooming lotus pose. In Sanskrit, it is known as vikasitakamalasana.

The pose is known to ease anxiety and stress; stabilizes the body; improve focus and concentration; stretch the ankles, hips, hamstrings, and knees; stimulates reproductive organs; tones the abdominal muscles; boosts immunity; and improves kidney, bladder, and urinary functions.

Watch for our (Part 2) where we will highlight a Blooming Lotus gratitude practice with a demonstration video and offer step by step instructions for creating your own lotus container garden!


 

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